For years, conversations about rest revolved around productivity hacks and perfectly optimised routines. But lately, a new kind of weekend identity has emerged, one that reveals how we really like to unwind when the work week finally loosens its grip.

Enter the Weekend Maximalist and the Weekend Minimalist: two rising lifestyle “types” that have quietly become the internet’s favourite way to describe everything from brunch habits to social stamina.

Neither is better than the other, they simply reflect different approaches to carving out joy, balance and downtime. So which one are you?

The Weekend Maximalist: Plans, Pleasure and Packed Calendars

If you’re the type who believes weekends are too short to waste, you’re probably a Weekend Maximalist. This personality thrives on movement, experiences and squeezing in as much living as possible before Monday returns.

Maximalists love:
• Plans — preferably several of them
• New cafés, markets, exhibitions, pop-ups
• Group hangouts, long day-outs, or back-to-back activities
• That satisfying feeling of “making the most of it”

They’re the friend who texts, “Brunch at 11? Then we check out that new shop, maybe catch a matinee, and dinner after?” To them, weekends are for collecting experiences, not catching up on sleep.

Why it works:
Maximalist weekends can feel energising and socially fulfilling. They give structure, excitement and a sense of novelty, helping people detach from the work week and lean into joy.

When it backfires:
Burnout. Even the most extroverted hearts need downtime, and back-to-back plans can sometimes leave Monday feeling like… well, Wednesday.

The Weekend Minimalist: Soft Schedules and Slow Rituals

On the other end of the spectrum, the Weekend Minimalist is quietly thriving. They prefer afternoons that unfold gently and mornings without alarms. Their weekends lean into comfort, space and slowness, a welcome balance to busy weekdays.

Minimalists love:
• Unplanned time, or at least a very light structure
• Quiet cafés, long walks, naps and lazy breakfasts
• Staying close to home
• A cosy movie night, tidying rituals or light errands at their own pace

They’re the one who says, “I’ll see how I feel on Sunday,” not because they’re flaky, but because they cherish having room to breathe.

Why it works:
A minimalist weekend helps with mental recovery. It creates space for reflection, calm and the kind of rest that isn’t rushed.

When it backfires:
Too much solitude can sometimes feel isolating, especially if the weekend ends without meaningful connection.

Most of Us Are a Bit of Both

The truth is, these two identities aren’t rigid boxes. Most people find themselves switching between maximalist and minimalist modes, depending on mood, stress levels, or seasons of life.

A December weekend might be packed with festive gatherings, while the following week is spent indoors with books and blankets. And that’s perfectly normal, healthy, even.

How to Find Your Ideal Weekend Rhythm

Instead of choosing a label, think of these two personalities as tools:

1. Maximalism for connection and creativity

Plan-rich weekends are great for discovery, socialising and creating memories. When your week has been monotonous or draining, new experiences can lift your energy.

2. Minimalism for recovery and grounding

Quiet weekends help reset your mind and body. Perfect after an overstimulating week or when you simply need space from the noise.

3. Mix and match

Try a “dual weekend”: Saturday for brunch and fun, Sunday for rest and slower rhythms. Many people find this balance ideal.

So, Which One Are You Today?

Whether you’re a Weekend Maximalist, a Weekend Minimalist, or floating somewhere in the middle, what matters most is recognising what your mind and body need each week, excitement, stillness, or a blend of both. Either way, it’s your weekend. You get to choose how you fill it.