Who doesn’t fantasise about getting the best sex every single day? If we’re going to be honest with ourselves, getting laid every night is the best way to go. But enjoying an amazing sex life isn’t just about wearing sexy lingerie, being the best at foreplay or even using the best vibrator in town.
It’s also about adapting these simple habits that you’ll surely thank yourself for:
Stop Thinking About Sex Like A Chore
Here’s the truth: you don’t need to have sex every day. While you may have done it every single day when you started dating, remember that your body will change physically as you grow older. Never measure the worth of your relationship through sex because you will not always have the same energy and drive to get into bed every day.
When you start to think of sex like a chore, it takes the fun out of being together. Instead, do other activities together outside the bedroom and sex will come naturally after.
Educate Yourself About Sex
When was the last time you took time to learn about sex? Chances are, you may have even been fooled by the many sexual myths on social media that are spreading like wildfire. The best way to get back on track with your sexual life is to learn about it.
You can check online adult apps, read self-help books and watch videos that talk about the different aspects of sex in a formal and wholesome way. Of course, you can also sneak in some videos from sex sites where you can get some ideas on how to do better in bed.
Maintain The Art Of Touch
Enjoying a better sex life isn’t just limited to having sex. One of the techniques taught by sex therapists is mastering the art of touch which helps to get back that physical intimacy between you and your partner. It’s also very important to communicate with each other how you want to be touched.
We all have different areas of pleasure and wants when it comes to touching, so communication is really key to mastering the art of touch.
Fantasise Together
Of course, you both have sexual fantasies. Who doesn’t after all? So why not communicate those fantasies and maybe work on making them come to life? Take the time to write down each other’s fantasies. It could be a scene from a movie. It might be an experience that you want to try, such as having sex in the car. You could also consider doing it with costumes on.
When it comes to sex, you can never go wrong with letting your imagination run wild. You can even reminisce about your past sexual adventures. Who knows, it might just trigger that spark to re-create those memories.
Finally, don’t forget to relax before getting into bed. Sometimes, stress gets in the way of having a good time. You think too much and focus on things that keep you from enjoying sex. So, relax, play some games, enjoy a great dinner and wind down.